when you wish upon a star

The more I talk to people about relationships the more I really wonder what the hell we are doing in this life? Even the people I think are so happy or in love are not.

Everyone changes over time, so how can you promise to stay with someone - even when the best thing for you both is to be in a different kind of relationship? In having expectations and obligations to someone we inevitably set ourselves up for failure. Do we not?

I'm having a hard time trusting my own self right now, because I am hearing so many opinions from so many different people. How do I know what is right in my heart when I know one of my weaknesses is always believing everything people tell me?

I feel like we could all be a lot happier if we just realized that everything we think we know may not be right. Belief systems can be the biggest obstacle to one's progress. We must be always willing to challenge our own selves, that we may in fact, be wrong. And that's not a bad thing...that's progress.