Assignment:
Here is an interesting thing. Write a character analysis of yourself. You are the character. We know nothing about you. Your likes, dislikes, your personal style, your family dynamics.
It's the chance to try to look at yourself from outside. And to redefine who you are. It's recently been brought to my attention that every time you make a significant change in yourself, the old you "dies."
If you want to change who you are, maybe you should fully think out and realize the person you want to be. Write a character description as if you were in a screenplay and no one had any idea about you at all.
See what happens.
~M